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Niece getting divorced

By bailey , Nov 7 2017

Hello there,
My neice (Veronika) recently said she is moving towards getting a divorce. She has four children and they may decide to have the children to continue to live in the matrimonial home and take alternate weeks living there. When I asked where she would live in her 'off week' she indicated that she would live with her sister. Her sister, violet is married with a 3-year old, has a very hectic job and from what I have see doesn't handle stress well. Actually the stress manifests in some tension in her marriage. Personally, I do not think it is a good idea for Veronika to even consider living with her sister. I believe this would add alot of stress to her marriage from my observations. Violet is a 'fixer' and a 'pleaser' and she would offer despite realizing it might be too much. should I voice these concerns with my divorcing neice? Should I just stay out of it all together? I just see a recipe for disaster. Thanks!