It's tough feeling disconnected from your nephews! Maybe try setting up regular video calls just to chat, even if it's short. My nieces love seeing my apartment and hearing about what I'm up to in NYC. You could also send little care packages or even play online games together. If they're into cars, you might even enjoy playing something simple like Drift Hunters online to bond. Don't beat yourself up though; life is busy! Just keep trying to connect in small ways.
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